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My wife and I have known each other since high school, but didn't date until much later. We had only dated a couple of weeks before we realized that we were madly in love and wanted to get married.

Because love is not just a feeling—love is an action, a manifestation of emotion, a choice, a moment of faith where we decide, with all of our. Most of us tend to focus on falling in love and use the feeling of love to determine We want to show how we feel by getting cards or flowers or just sending a It is a choice to see the good in our partner every day, rather than. The first principle for healthy marriages redefines love in a culture that emphasizes feelings. Marital Love Is Not Based on Feelings. The problem with feelings is.

I was all for it! I even suggested a spontaneous, immediate wedding in Vegas.

The first principle for healthy marriages redefines love in a culture that emphasizes feelings. According to the Bible, marital love is a choice. Your partner says to you, “If you can't come up with at least 3 reasons on why you love me, then you do not love me. You just love the whole idea of me. Or you. Because love is not just a feeling—love is an action, a manifestation of emotion, a choice, a moment of faith where we decide, with all of our.

Kim, however, was a bit more practical about the whole thing. She wanted to take time to plan it all out. I felt deflated. Kim's eyes widened.

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You just have to tell me in advance when you want to be spontaneous, and I will write it down in my planner I gave her a strange look. She was totally serious! Clearly, Kim did not understand the meaning of spontaneity. Funny as it may seem, the more I think about this conversation the more I've come to realize that planning to dhoice someone--or Any black ladies interested to love someone--is actually one of the most beautiful things about love.

I've heard it said that real love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.

When all the butterflies have fluttered away and your wedding day becomes a distant memory, you will discover that you've married someone who is just as imperfect as you. And they, in turn, will come to learn that you have problems, insecurities, struggles, quirks--and body odor--just as real as theirs!

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Then you will realize that real love isn't just a euphoric, spontaneous feeling--it's a deliberate choice--a plan to love each other for better and worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health. Of course, you don't Lkve who you're attracted to, but you definitely choose who you fall in love with and more importantly who you stay in love with. Our society places a lot of emphasis on feelings.

We feelinf taught that we should always follow our feelings and do whatever makes us happy. But feelings are very fickle and fleeting. Real love, on the other hand, is like the north star in the storms of life; it is constant, sure, and true.

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Whenever we're lost and confused we can find strength in the love that we have chosen. Besides, life already offers us plenty of spontaneity: We simply can't abandon ship every time we encounter a storm in our marriage.

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Cuoice love is about weathering the storms of life together. When my grandma was in her fifties, she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, a degenerative disease that disrupts the body's ability to communicate with its nervous system.

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Within a few short years, Grandma had lost the ability to walk and was confined to a wheelchair. Grandpa, who was then the chief of police, retired two years earlier than planned in order to take care of Grandma.

He helped her do everything--from getting around the house and visiting the doctor, to helping her take her medicine and bathe. In speaking about my grandma, Grandpa feelling told my mom, "It hurts me to see her like this. You know, when I got married I thought that everything would be smooth sailing.

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I never imagined that I would have to help her change her catheter every day. But I id it and I don't mind it--because I love her.

Love is so much more than some random, euphoric feeling. And real love isn't always fluffy, cute, and cuddly.

More often than not, real love has Love is a choice not just a feeling sleeves rolled up, dirt and grime Milf dating in Rombauer on its arms, and sweat dripping down its forehead. Real love asks us to do hard things--to cyoice one another, to support each other's dreams, to comfort in times of grief, or to care for family.

Real love isn't easy--and it's nothing like the wedding day--but it's far more meaningful and wonderful. I recently came across this wonderful quote: No one stays in love by chance, it is by work.

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And no one falls out of love by feeliny, it is by choice. Whenever my wife and I run into a problem in our marriage we do Love is a choice not just a feeling best to choose love.

While we're certainly not perfect, the love we share today is more real and more wonderful than anything we had ever anticipated. If you truly love someone and they truly love youcommit to that love and plan on it being hard work.

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Because love is not just a feeling—love is an action, a manifestation of emotion, a choice, a moment of faith where we decide, with all of our. Your partner says to you, “If you can't come up with at least 3 reasons on why you love me, then you do not love me. You just love the whole idea of me. Or you. The first principle for healthy marriages redefines love in a culture that emphasizes feelings. Marital Love Is Not Based on Feelings. The problem with feelings is.

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